Wasn't going to post but i think things have already been taken wrongly by one person who's responded so i'm guessing it will be again.
We have been having problems and its things that I'm hoping will change with _ebb_. The fact that i'm unsure the relationship will / can continue is linked inextricably with how sure i am that I love her. If i was sure i loved her 100% i wouldn't be able to turn around and leave the relationship. Knowing i loved her 100% would mean that I would do whatever was necessary to keep the relationship together regarless of the effect on other people around us on anything else. As it is, I can't.
In so much as what has been said on here, I understand totally why you'd like the physical contact toned down but i can't understand why you would feel uncomfortable with me giving you a hug or holding your hand. Two things that i would do with many of my friends.
As I said before though, we'll go with whatever you decide.
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Date: 2004-02-04 02:15 am (UTC)Wasn't going to post but i think things have already been taken wrongly by one person who's responded so i'm guessing it will be again.
We have been having problems and its things that I'm hoping will change with
In so much as what has been said on here, I understand totally why you'd like the physical contact toned down but i can't understand why you would feel uncomfortable with me giving you a hug or holding your hand. Two things that i would do with many of my friends.
As I said before though, we'll go with whatever you decide.